by two readers, I was made aware that my assumption was that there might be gifted, they knew nothing or would not have noticed, do not vote. Well, I can reply that was exactly the case with me. But well, I'm just one. However, I know many gifted children, who by chance (through a psychology degree, find an IQ test is conducted as an exercise, took part in a TV or IQ test remarkably successful, etc.) and so learned from their giftedness. Never in the life of these people had voluntarily taken a test because they believed they were gifted. That this situation has strange and it is for those involved, too, is the reason why I wrote my book on giftedness.
This is about what happens to a man who learns as an adult, he was gifted and had no idea that it was he.
What happens to a man who thought he was normal and now finds out he is not it?
How he feels when he noticed though, that he was different, however, sought to blame himself and now finds out the difference comes from the highly gifted? He could change anything, but it is a gift.
How do you deal with when trying for decades to adapt and did not understand why they won was always an outsider?
What happens to the man, who notes that he ran after an ideal that did not fit on it?
What happens to these people who have always felt different and never knew why?
feel how people who experience now that they are highly talented, but are now making allegations because they have done nothing in life?
feel How does a man who is now highly talented, but not even managed to school?
feel How does a man who is talented, but is not able to work with other people?
course, there are gifted children who are independent of whether they knew it early or not, happy. There are gifted children who have achieved a lot in life, successful, have money and a lot of status symbols. There are also gifted, who are happy and not so successful. But the difference is that they live two types of gifted children with their giftedness. They have learned to come to terms and live with the giftedness. This possibility had the highly gifted but not who did not know it. There are also two groups of gifted children who do not know that they are highly talented. Those who have yet found their place in life and an environment were they accepted as they are. And it is those who were not accepted, and now try to answer many questions. I find it strange
that the gifted it will be rejected categorically that there could be gifted, who know nothing of their giftedness. So that they displace a fact and close its eyes to perhaps seeking help gifted children. I am happy for all gifted children who live happy and satisfied. Whether they use their gift now or not. The point is to be at peace with itself. But one must therefore close our eyes to other situations? Why not help these gifted students to those who are still looking for their place? The place to date may have never had and always were looking for? Which now, by the result of giftedness finally have a guide, can follow them? This gifted can be helped on their way in the making, the experience of other gifted with her ability to give more. But, To stand and act as if it were not for these people, just because we ourselves in the fortunate situation to know, this is certainly the wrong way.
For the gifted, the first late from their talent and experience had no clue before lived in a society that could do with them anything. How do feel now this gifted, even when they are pushed away from gifted with words, this can not be?
My book I have written so that an understanding can grow each other. It is precisely the normalization, the same things, is widespread in Germany. How much better would it be if people respect each other more and not demonize the difference, but accept? As it is, people who are probably still looking, even rejected by their peers.
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